College Guys Should Be Confident And Outgoing
College
is a time where guys should try to really establish themselves. College
guys should always be trying to meet new people, be active and build
confidence. When guys come to college they get a clean slate,
everything that happened in high school is in the past, now is the time
to establish who you are, who you want to be and where you want to go
with your life. Be active and keep the mindset that just about anything
is achievable in college. If you have an idea or want to do something
ask around visit your student union building and try to figure out how
you can make things happen. The more people you talk to and interact
with the more confident you will be the rest of your life. Confidence
helps you get jobs, talk to girls and be more successful overall.
Manage your reputation: Don't burn bridges
No matter what happens, always be a gentleman
because you never know who is watching. Your biggest concern is your
rep. Your rep is what other people say about you when your name comes
up. Some will say "he's a nice guy" some will say "he's such an @$$h0le
to girls". This is very important as you get more popular, and you meet
more girls. If all goes well you will reach a point in college where
you will hear "I've heard about you", but as long as she stays around,
that means your rep is good. If you burn your bridges and treat girls
badly, it will get around and catch up to you. At that point you have
c0ckb10cked yourself, and that is very bad. If you are done hooking up
with a girl, or she is done hooking up with you, move on remember there
are thousands of girls within a thousand feet of you. Don't talk bad
about the girl, if someone asks, just say "it didn't work out". Other
girls will respect that and your rep will stay clean, and girls will
talk about you, the more they talk they more they wonder why all the
girls are talking about this guy.
College guys must carry condoms
You MUST
carry condoms at all times. You never know when you are going to meet
that girl in your one class that has been eyeing you up for the past
couple months and somehow you are in the right place at the right time.
Don't take risks because "Somewhere between 20 and 25 percent of college students are or have been infected with an STD".
That means that if four girls are sitting on a couch, one of them
probably has some type of STD, so WRAP IT UP every time. For those of
you college guys who don't know HPV is a STD that guys can carry and
have no symptoms, so you may think you are clean, and that "one time"
didn't do any damage, but that one time could cause your future wife
(you haven't met her yet) to get cervical cancer. So wrap it up every
time, and get tested for everything if you made a mistake. Your college
health center should give free STD tests, take advantage of it.
Don't fight, your face is important, and there are girls elsewhere
Some
college guys love to fight, they look forward to getting drunk and
going out to pick fights. Don't be this guy. Fighting leads to a
permanent record (jobs don't like this), your face getting messed up,
and wasting your night with a bunch of dudes. Try to avoid fights at
all costs, remember while all those guys are fighting, there are a lot
of girls somewhere alone.